Romantic relationships tend to be way more difficult and complex as opposed to biological relationships. It tends to be joyous but also painful at times. Sadhguru reflected on it and shared his views with the actress Mouni Roy who put up this question. He says that a lot of boyfriend-girlfriend relationships leave a sour taste. Sadhguru talks about the reasons and how to fix this issue.
Sadhguru’s take on why romantic relationships are complex
In Western traditions, physical attraction is given importance when getting into romantic relationships. Therefore, influenced by that, many are getting into relationships based on just that. However, these bonds do not last as their base is not a connection of the soul. Therefore, they start to get distressed, as after one point the couple tend to squeeze happiness and joy out of each other. This is caused due to expectations they keep from each other that do not always get fulfilled. As a result, conflict happens
Sadhguru’s tips on managing the issue
Sadhguru’s advice on managing this issue is very simple. His answer is to focus on being a joyful person yourself. Besides any external factors, working on yourself and your inner self will help you achieve a state of joy and contentment. Therefore, they will not rely on the other person to provide them with the same. Moreover, this will detach toxic ties an individual has with their partner that is need-based. Sadhguru weighs in on need-based relationships and says that it is a problem in most relationships. When they are need-based, they can take a toll on both parties, making the relationship difficult and hurtful. Therefore, he talks about removing the needs from the relationships that can lead to a fulfilling relationship.
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